Just call me the "Walking Red Flag"

I was having a conversation with a girl at the bar at my hotel and the topic of drugs came up and I said “I love drugs, but don’t do them anymore”. Immediately, she got a text and said out loud: “a text from my mom”.

Our conversation seemed to completely end after that.

The text from her “mother” is just coded, double meaning speech, of her internal moral gauge contacting her and giving ME a red flag for saying I loved drugs.

Our parents and probably our entire families are an illusion. They are simply instant "physical" projections of internal existence/guidance.

I’ve had this “someone gets a text from a parent (or other important people)” thing happen on numerous occasions, while I was in conversation with people about important things and they were either judging me or I was judging them.